Have you ever set a goal and thought, “When I achieve this, I’ll feel amazing”? But then, once you get there, doubts creep in: “I had help. It took too long. This doesn’t really count.” And so, you set a new goal – repeating an endless cycle of self-sabotage.
The problem isn’t the goal itself; it’s how we define success. You can’t win if you keep moving the goalposts. Imagine playing a game where the rules keep changing – how can you possibly succeed?
The Solution: Define the Rules of the Game
- Be specific about your goal: What exactly do you want to achieve? Get clear on the target.
- Decide what “good enough” means: When will you be satisfied? What does success look like to you?
- Stick to the rules: Don’t shift the standards after the fact.
Achieving your goals becomes possible when you define success clearly and commit to it. It’s not about perfection; it’s about embracing “good enough” and recognizing your progress.
So, set your goals, define your rules, and celebrate your wins. The key to lasting satisfaction is knowing when to stop moving the finish line.
